The couple that I was jealous of:)

[ndinkel]

The couple that I talked about, husband works for DH. I was jealous when I found out they were pregnant and then they lost the baby. Just found out of lunch, they are PREGNANT! I'm very happy for them he and DH are still hoping that it will work for us this month too and then we will be pregnant at the same time. They joked and said they would just close down the shop for a day and induce us both:)

[debbymc4]

That's great news! Boy that was quick for them.

[aimee]

That's good news! Hopefully you can be pregnant together! :D

[tryin'4#1]

I am hoping you get a BFP too!

[ndinkel]

Part of me wishes that DH wouldn't have told me until we knew about us but I guess I can't suddendly forget. I'm very happy for them, just, I don't know how to explain it. Just wish I didn't know until later. Her DH has said for the past week that he just "knew" she was. I hope that My DH's feelings are correct too.

[aimee]

ndinkel - I know how you feel. I have a few prego family and friends (actually quite a few since we started ttc) and as happy as you are for them you have that feeling of longing (for lack of a better word) inside of you. It is hard to explain because you don't wish them any harm but you wonder when and if you will have your turn. Especially when they keep happening one after the other which is happening in my life right now (tons of babies on the way)! I really, really hope your husband is right and this is your turn! Tons of baby and sticky dust to you! Good luck tomorrow! :D

[ndinkel]

I am really happy for them b/c I know how she feels since they had a m/c too, I just think I would feel less presure if I didn't know they were.

[aimee]

I know what you mean. It is an added pressure of sorts and it may be on your mind now and during the two week wait. As if you needed more things to think about? LOL. But that is very exciting for them and yes, knowing how hard it is to lose a baby I am sure you are extra happy for them. I am sure it will be fine and it would be so nice for both of you to be pregant together. Good luck! :)

[debbymc4]

I found out today that a woman I work with is pregnant. When I first started ttc, I had lunch with her and we saw a baby. I didn't tell her I was ttc, but she said she kind of wished that she had tried. She hadn't wanted a child and was now 40 and it was too late. I told her that I didn't think it was too late; she's in really good shape and very healthy. So, I hear today she's pregnant and I'm happy but jealous at the same time. I thought about that if I hadn't had a m/c, we would be pregnant together. :(

[ndinkel]

It is so confusing when you are happy for someone yet jealous at the same time. All I can think about is that if this doesn't work then I will spend all year with a pregnant para in my room 75% of the day and DH's employee's wife will be pregnant and I will hear all about that and DH doesn't understand why it is hard to hear about. I want this so bad. I really believe that if I am pregnant that it will stick it is just a matter of whether or not I am. I don't know why I am obsessing. There is nothing I can do about it now, either I am or I'm not. I just really hope the next 14 days goes by fast. The rest of this week will go by fast, next week I am at a workshop for two days but I think that will drag. I think it is just going to be the weekends that go by slow. I just hope that if I am not that AF won't show at work, that would be hard to take. But...I am thinking postiively! This will be my month! :D

[aimee]

Debby - Sorry to hear you are feeling that way. I have definately been there. It is sometimes hard to understand how you can be happy and jealous of someone at the same time but it happens with PCOS. LOL! Stay positive - maybe you can still be pregnant together. Good luck! :D

ndinkel - I understand your concern with being around pregnant people while ttc. Espeically since you have a few other factors that make it a little harder. I work in a small office of about 8 people and 3 are pregnant! It is very hard sometimes especially when I get BFNs. My DH also has a hard time understanding how hard it can be to hear about certain "baby things." It does get a little easier as time goes by. Keep that positive attitude! I really hope this is your month and you're in my thoughts. Good luck! :D

[debbymc4]

n - I REALLY hope this is your month. I've so got my fingers and toes crossed for you.